Rethinking - and Fish!

First of all, if you've been to the site before, you'll see that I went a bit nuts with the template designer. I wanted something less serene. It would have been lower-key until I found out you can add fish - FISH! - as a decorative item. Honestly, the ability to add fish kind of made my day. So hopefully the changed look and feel makes the place warmer.

Second, I have wondered whether the things I'm saying are useful in the context of discussing an affair or not. A lot of it would apply to the emotional landscape of any divorce, any single-parenting situation, any contemplation of new love after divorce. And while these are all elements of my journey in figuring out how to rebuild myself and my life after having an affair, maybe there's more to be said first about the affair itself - how it happened, what I learned, and whether it's too soon to make snappy sarcastic comments about the utter destruction of my life as I knew it.

I'd be interested in comments. What do people want to know, if they care enough to read this?

Oh, FYI, I do moderate comments, so it might be a few hours before your comment posts.